How To Get The Ex Boyfriend Back
Has your boyfriend recently decided to call it quits on your relationship? Do you want to get your ex boyfriend back? Do you feel like something is now missing from your life, and your heart, now that he is gone? The following are a few tips you can use to get your ex boyfriend back.
First of all, get some space. This means to cut off communication for a while. Stop texting and calling, don’t try to track his movements so you can just show up wherever he happens to be. This kind of behavior is a turn off and will just drive him away. You want him to have time to collect his thoughts and start to realize that he misses you.
Next, start to work on yourself instead of trying desperately to get your ex boyfriend back. Start to turn your life around in a positive way. Work through the negative feelings and do your best to flush them out of your system. One way to accomplish this is to write him a letter. Detail your all the good times, all the bad times, all the times you felt hurt or slighted and everything you wished you had said to him. Pour your heart out on paper. Once you’ve finished writing it all down, DON’T SEND IT. Take a match and set fire to it, watch as the flames burn away the past. This symbolic gesture will give you closure on that part of your relationship.
After you have completed the exercise with the letter, continue surrounding yourself with positivism. Avoid getting into negative conversation about your ex with friends or family. Try to be positive in every aspect of your life.
Think about all the things that made your relationship strong. Focus only on the good times. If you do talk to your ex, do whatever you can to remain positive. Don’t start a fight by bringing up the negative things that led to the breakup. If you want to get your ex boyfriend back, you need to remind him only of the good things in your relationship.
Don’t be afraid to go out and have some fun. Hook up with friends and get out of the house. Do some of the things that you used to do when you were single. Relieve some stress and get your mind off of the breakup. When your ex sees that you are doing just fine, he may see you in a new light. He might remember all the things that made him fall in love with you in the first place. He may just want more than ever to be a part of your life. Now, he just might start pursuing you instead of the other way around and that is the best way to get your ex boyfriend back.