How Do I Get Back With My Ex BoyfriendIts 5:00, you are just getting off and he has been on your mind since he broke up with you last night. You just sent him another text message, hoping that he will finally answer this one. He doesn't though, and the more you do to try and bring him back, the farther away you push him.
You try calling his cell but he doesn't answer. You leave him several voicemails telling him that it's your fault. Telling him that you are sorry. Trying to explain to him that you are his one true love. You keep doing this thinking that you are improving the situation, that you are making him realize that you belong together but what you are really doing is driving him away for good. Don't let this happen to you! Do you know that your first reactions to a breakup are the ones that determine weather or not you will get your ex back? Its true! The fact is people want what they can't have. How many times have you heard that? Well now its time for you to use it to your advantage. If you really want to get your ex back you need to agree with them when they say that its over. Don't make a big scene or bother them text messages or voicemails. Instead tell them that they are right. Tell them you have spent a lot of time lately contemplating the exact same thing. Tell them you agree and that you are better off going in different directions. Don't panic if you have already sent the text messages and made the phone calls. It isn't too late! There is still hope! just write them a letter or them and tell them that you feel bad about the way you reacted earlier. Tell them that you have done a lot of reflecting, and they are right. That the two of you are better off apart. Now your back in the game! This is known as making your "opening move" and it is the most important step you will take when trying to win your ex back. Remember that and they will be yours forever! |